Anonymous asked:
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Can bedroom only bdsm be ethical if you dont go to classes? can it be ethical to have a kink relationship between someone who is in the scene and someone who is strictly bedroom only (doesnt even go to classes).
evie-lupine answered:
Anon,
Yes absolutely.
Depends on your personal risk assessment.
But there are many online instructional materials, books, and resources you can learn about kink from without having to go to classes. Classes are almost always the best method. But are by no means *required* for every single kink activity. And many people learn just fine, agreeing to “trial and error” with their partner and that’s not necessarily wrong. And many people get by just learning from more experienced partners.
Don’t mix up encouraging best practices with setting a mandate for what is and is not ethical kink in every case.
Evie
